Tuesday, February 28, 2012

What Women Want... Dear Men, Know This

Dear boys who want to be men, men who know they are boys, and those of you uncertain of whether you remain a boy or have become a man, this is for you.

Women want to be loved like this:

We want to be treated with genuine chivalry, and utmost respect and affection like in Kate&Leopold.

We want to be wooed like in The Tourist, You Got Mail, Pride & Prejudice.

We want to be sought after like in The Last of the Mohicans, Slumdog Millionaire.

We want to be valued as an independent like in Elizabeth I, Princess Diaries.

We want to have our honor defended like in Bella, Princess Diaries 2, Les Meserables

We want to fight alongside our lovers like in Robin Hood (Russel Crow), The Two Towers,
                                                                                                                Return of the King, Harry Potter.

We want to hold such a weight in the hearts of our lovers like in One Night with the King.

We want our love to be so deeply unbreakable and true like in The Princess Bride.

We don't want to be the leaders, we don't want to play a side role, we don't want sex without your entire self in commitment to us, we don't want to be nice or pretty or tolerable.

We long to be completely worth your time, your body, your devotion, your attention, your will.
We want to be worth you.
But we are not going to settle or less than all of you.

When you know these things. When you heave them in your heart because you comprehend them, then, and only then, are you really ready to woo us.
And do, don't hesitate. If you know her and she's it, then don't be a silly boy who isn't worth it. Become a man, live well, fight for her love and her honor.
And pursue. Lead. Love. and accept all of us who we give over to you, because we'll give it all.


Are you willing to do the same?



P.S.:
you should watch all of these movies with this in mind. nothing teaches better than a story.


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